Everett Worthington's reconciliation model emphasizes the process of rebuilding trust and repairing relationships after conflict or harm. It is closely tied to his work on forgiveness and is often presented alongside his REACH Forgiveness model. Worthington outlines a four-step Bridge to Reconciliation, which includes:
Deciding to reconcile: Both parties must express a willingness to restore the relationship.
Discussing the conflict: Open and honest communication about the harm caused is essential.
Detoxifying the relationship: This involves addressing negative emotions and fostering empathy.
Developing trust: Gradually rebuilding trust through consistent and positive interactions.
Schnabel & Nadler (2008) Needs-Based Model of Reconciliation
This model emphasizes the socio-emotional aspects of reconciliation, focusing on the psychological needs of both victims and perpetrators in post-conflict situations. According to the model:
Victims often experience a loss of power and control due to the harm inflicted upon them. They have a psychological need to restore their sense of empowerment.
Perpetrators, on the other hand, may feel a threat to their moral identity. They have a need to restore their moral image and be reintegrated into the moral community.
The model suggests that reconciliation occurs when these needs are addressed and fulfilled. For example, victims may feel empowered through acknowledgment of their suffering or receiving an apology, while perpetrators may restore their moral image by expressing genuine remorse and seeking forgiveness.
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Geoffrey W. Sutton, Professor Emeritus of Psychology at Evangel University, holds a master’s degree in counseling and a PhD in psychology from the University of Missouri-Columbia. His postdoctoral work encompassed education and supervision in forensic and neuropsychology. As a licensed psychologist, he conducted clinical and neuropsychological evaluations and provided psychotherapy for patients in various settings, including schools, hospitals, and private offices. During his tenure as a professor, Dr. Sutton taught courses on psychotherapy, assessment, and research. He has authored over one hundred publications, including books, book chapters, and articles in peer-reviewed psychology journals. His website is https://suttong.com
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