Showing posts with label psychology of sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology of sex. Show all posts

Monday, October 2, 2023

Psychology of Guilt




Guilt is an uncomfortable emotional response associated with personal responsibility for violating one's moral code.

The moral violations may be doing something wrong or failing to do something one ought to do.

Guilt in a psychological sense is different from guilt in a legal sense. In psychology, a person feels guilty, which involves a self-conscious response along with the emotion. The feeling of guilt may be associated with past or present actions or failures to act associated with oneself or one's group. 

A person found guilty of breaking a law is a judgment made by some external authority. The person judged guilty may or may not feel guilty.

In psychology, a small amount of guilt related to a specific act or failure to act may be helpful to maintain important relationships when the feeling leads to actions that repair the perceived harm such as an apology or actions that rebuild trust.

Excessive guilt can be harmful. When people cannot gain relief from guilt they may need to see a psychotherapist.

Psychologists distinguish between guilt and shame. See the article on shame and the work by June Tangney. Guilt generally is experienced as a distressful emotion linked to some negative outcome or experience for which the person who feels guilty believes they have some degree of responsibility. In contrast, shame is a more pervasive negative evaluation of oneself as unworthy or blameworthy.



June Tangney was interviewed for an APA podcast. Here is a quote from that interview.

In a nutshell, when we feel shame, we feel bad about ourselves. We are fundamentally flawed because we did something. It reflects on who we are as a person. I’m a bad person for having done that. Guilt in contrast focuses on a behavior somewhat separate from the self. You can be a good person, but do a bad thing.






Guilt and Religion

Guilt and religion often have a close relationship. This is often seen in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder for those who obsess about wrongdoing and perform compulsive religious actions as if to rid oneself of guilt. For example, repeatedly confessing sin or asking forgiveness for sin.


 Geoffrey W. Sutton, PhD is Emeritus Professor of Psychology. He retired from a clinical practice and was credentialed in clinical neuropsychology and psychopharmacology. His website is  www.suttong.com

 See Geoffrey Sutton’s books on   AMAZON       or  GOOGLE STORE

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Dr. Sutton’s posts are for educational purposes only. See a licensed mental health provider for diagnoses, treatment, and consultation.


Read more about shame and guilt

Dein S. (2013). The Origins of Jewish Guilt: Psychological, Theological, and Cultural Perspectives. Journal of spirituality in mental health15(2), 123–137. https://doi.org/10.1080/19349637.2012.737682

Rakesh, K., Arvind, S., Dutt, B. P., Mamta, B., Bhavneesh, S., Kavita, M., Navneet, K., Shrutika, G., Priyanka, B., Arun, K., Harkamal, K., & Jagdeep, K. (2021). The Role of Religiosity and Guilt in Symptomatology and Outcome of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Psychopharmacology bulletin51(3), 38–49.

Tangney, J. P. (1990). Assessing individual differences in proneness to shame and guilt: Development of the Self-Conscious Affect and Attribution Inventory. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 59, 102-111.

Tangney, J. P., Miller, R. S., Flicker, L., & Barlow, D. H. (1996). Are shame, guilt, and embarrassment distinct emotions? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 70, 1256-1269.

Walinga, P., Corveleyn, J., & van Saane, J. (2005). GUILT AND RELIGION: THE INFLUENCE OF ORTHODOX PROTESTANT AND ORTHODOX CATHOLIC CONCEPTIONS OF GUILT ON GUILT-EXPERIENCE. Archiv Für Religionspsychologie / Archive for the Psychology of Religion27, 113–135. http://www.jstor.org/stable/23910015

Thursday, March 23, 2023

Sexual Self-Esteem

 


Sexual self-esteem is a subjective evaluation of one’s sexuality and is a contributing factor to global self-esteem.

Sexual self-esteem has been operationally defined by the Sexual Self-Esteem Scale (Zeanah and Schwarz (1996). The items in the scale are organized into five subscales. The following names of the five subscales reveal the thinking of some researchers about the features of sexual self-esteem.

Skill and experience

Attractiveness

Control

Moral judgment

Adaptiveness

Melanie Oattes and Alia Offman (2007) found that high levels of global self-esteem are associated with high levels of sexual self-esteem, which was consistent with the work of others. They also found that sexual self-esteem contributed to understanding sexual communication beyond the contribution of global self-esteem. Sexual self-esteem was measured with the Sexual Self-Esteem Scale and global self-esteem was measured with the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale (Rosenberg, 1965).

 

References

Oattes, M. K., & Offman, A. (2007). Global self-esteem and sexual self-esteem as predictors of sexual communication in intimate relationships. Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality16(3–4), 89–100.

Rosenberg, M. (1965). Society and the adolescent self-image. Princeton University Press

Zeanah, P.D., & Schwarz, J.C. (1996). Reliability and validity of the sexual self-esteem inventory for women. Assessment, 3, 1-15

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Geoffrey W. Sutton, PhD is Emeritus Professor of Psychology. He retired from a clinical practice and was credentialed in clinical neuropsychology and psychopharmacology. His website is  www.suttong.com

 

See Geoffrey Sutton’s books on   AMAZON       or  GOOGLE STORE

Follow on    FACEBOOK   Geoff W. Sutton    

   TWITTER  @Geoff.W.Sutton    

You can read many published articles at no charge:

  Academia   Geoff W Sutton     ResearchGate   Geoffrey W Sutton 

 

Dr. Sutton’s posts are for educational purposes only. See a licensed mental health provider for diagnoses, treatment, and consultation.

 

 

Wednesday, March 15, 2023

Pornography and Psychology

 


Pornography is sexually explicit material that increases sexual arousal in consumers with an intact sexual response. The material may be presented in many forms such as film, photographs, books, paintings, sculptures, and so forth.

Psychological scientists disagree on the best way to define pornography so the above definition is not universally accepted. A useful review of key features of a definition of pornography can be found in McKee et al. (2020).

 

Reference

McKee, A., Byron, P., Litsou, K., & Ingham, R. (2020). An Interdisciplinary Definition of Pornography: Results from a Global Delphi Panel. Archives of sexual behavior49(3), 1085–1091. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019-01554-4

 


Geoffrey W. Sutton, PhD is Emeritus Professor of Psychology. He retired from a clinical practice and was credentialed in clinical neuropsychology and psychopharmacology. His website is  www.suttong.com

 

See Geoffrey Sutton’s books on   AMAZON       or  GOOGLE STORE

Follow on    FACEBOOK   Geoff W. Sutton    

   TWITTER  @Geoff.W.Sutton    

You can read many published articles at no charge:

  Academia   Geoff W Sutton     ResearchGate   Geoffrey W Sutton 

 

Dr. Sutton’s posts are for educational purposes only. See a licensed mental health provider for diagnoses, treatment, and consultation.

 

Saturday, October 1, 2022

vaginismus

 


Vaginismus is a condition that interferes with sexual activity either due to an inability to vaginal penetration or considerable pain during penetration due to contraction of pelvic muscles in the outer one-third of the vagina during sexual intercourse. 

A diagnosis includes a review of medical and psychological factors.


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